A few weeks ago we were discussing life, death and religion or faith.
The human mind wants to make sense of life, to understand it and to know where to from here. We are always trying to find the answer – we are hot wired to do this. For many, religion gives them an unwavering faith in birth, in life and death. Others have different faiths that offer them the same; some are just constantly looking and for some who have ‘lost’ someone and don’t have faith are stuck in the why.
Death is ahead for all of us. Some of us face death of a loved on during our journey at some point. It is hard to come to terms with death, as the finality of it is painful and non-repairable for us who are left behind.
I know science is out there and valid and for most of me it makes sense. But when I try and relate science to losing my child it sticks in my throat. So, I get stuck in this merry go round of what is – what isn’t.
Then I noticed a post on Aleisha’s wall and thought it worth sharing.
“You want a physicist to speak at your funeral. You want the physicist to talk to your grieving family about the conservation of energy, so they will understand that your energy has not died. You want the physicist to remind your sobbing mother about the first law of thermodynamics; that no energy gets created in the universe, and none is destroyed. You want your mother to know that all your energy, every vibration, every Btu of heat, every wave of every particle that was her beloved child remains with her in this world. You want the physicist to tell your weeping father that amid energies of the cosmos, you gave as good as you got.
And at one point you’d hope that the physicist would step down from the pulpit and walk to your broken hearted spouse there in the pew and tell him that all the photons that ever bounced off your face, all the particles whose paths were interrupted by your smile, by the touch of your hair, hundreds of trillions of particles, have raced off like children, their ways forever changed by you. And as your widow rocks in the arms of a loving family, may the physicist let her know that all the photons that bounced from you were gathered in the particle detectors that are her eyes, that those photons created within her constellations of electromagnetically charged neurons whose energy will go on forever.
And the physicist will remind the congregation of how much of all our energy is given off as heat. There may be a few fanning themselves with their programs as he says it. And he will tell them that the warmth that flowed through you in life is still here, still part of all that we are, even as we who mourn continue the heat of our own lives.
And you’ll want the physicist to explain to those who loved you that they need not have faith; indeed, they should not have faith. Let them know that they can measure, that scientists have measured precisely the conservation of energy and found it accurate, verifiable and consistent across space and time. You can hope your family will examine the evidence and satisfy themselves that the science is sound and that they’ll be comforted to know your energy’s still around. According to the law of the conservation of energy, not a bit of you is gone; you’re just less orderly. Amen.”
-Aaron Freeman.